Many children in order to cope and survive, and because of their natural love of their parents will block the truth out and paint a prettier picture of denial and come up with another story to glass it all over. How could a child possibly believe otherwise, through all of the confusion? Your parents may have lied to you, and glossed things over too in order to protect you from their truth which they could not face themselves.
Affirmation: “I now look at my relationship through the eyes of an adult and not a confused and frightened child. I will no longer lie to myself or anyone else. Living in a fantasy is painful, and I gradually work on the obstacles that stand in the way of telling myself the truth”.
When we can look at our parents, warts and all then we are looking at them from an adult perspective, and we come to a place of acceptance of the truth. Adult to adult. It is in this place that we can begin to look at issues head on, see the truth, work through the process of healing ourselves.
By taking off our Rose colored glasses, we clear our soul and are more connected in with the higher flow of true Spirit. We learn to trust ourselves and our intuition, and we feel happier and more at peace within.